Dom.
Herr.
Master.
Sadist.
Exhibitionist.
Berlin-Gay.
Your escort
to your inner self
As Master and Dominus, I am here to escort you into pain that paves your way to reality, which was just a fantasy.
I escort you to pain as your source of lust, pleasure, energy and transformation. Your pain is pointless for me without that.
Your transformation is the source of my sexual joy.
To make it possible, we establish a unique bond of trust in preparation for a BDSM session.
The transformative beauty of suffering.
I have led individuals, teams, organizations, and societal groups to transformation through pain in my diverse previous leadership and management positions and my role as a public figure for over two decades. The same way, I see and feel your potential, desire and fantasy.
To lead you there, to become part of your transformation and growth is my desire and pleasure.
I cause you pain and I set the rules.
I don't dream my fantasies; I live them. I create the rules, not align with them. I don't follow; I lead.
Yet, I don't need you following. I'm not an alpha male making my self-worth depending on if you do so. As a sigma, I don't care much about status or hierarchy, or other socially constructed normatives.
So, I enjoy your suffering if I see the transformation, joy, new experience. I feel, I see, I internalise your pain. I cause it and I share it with you.
You submit
based on trust
we established.
Your trust, obedience and devotion is as a generous, valuable gift which creates a gorgeous experience for both of us.
And I take it as my opportunity to live my shadow side beautifully.
Limitless. Be cautious what you wish for.
I don't have any limits. I mean it.
Thus, I don't have any musts either. The center of my pleasure is our mutual experience of extending boundaries, growing and transforming when I'm escorting you to make your dreams becoming real.
So is the purpose of transformation the the precondition and a limit for our interaction. The same applies to legality of the agreed practices under German jurisdiction. Every BDSM Master is under constant risk of criminal liability, therefore clear legally valid agreements have to be reached prior the Session. It expresses the consent we reached while preparing the Session.
It has two consequences.
First, be very cautious about what you wish when booking me. You have to be very aware about your limits and expectations. I'll respect the framework we agreed on ahead of the DRB Experience Session, yet don't expect any empathy from me during it as I keep my promises.
Second, we will start the preparation with you sharing your fantasy. You will fill in an (absolutely confidential and anonymous) online questionnaire. I will not answer any of your questions prior receiving your entries. This is my way to avoiding you adapt to your imagination of what I wish and want. I'll tell you that myself, be sure about it.
I might not have particular limits but there are such sexual practices that just simply go cold for me. Under individual cases we can still make it, if I understand the meaning and purpose of such practices and the importance for your development.
Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) is possible if I am convinced this is your desire and, according to my assessment, you are ready for a CNC play.
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Dominant
100% Master
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
100% Exhibitionist
94% Experimentalist
87% Non-monogamist
84% Primal (Hunter)
81% Owner
80% Degrader
80% Voyeur
73% Brat tamer
30% Vanilla
0% Switch
0% Masochist
0% Degradee
0% Slave
0% Submissive
0% Brat
0% Pet
0% Primal (Prey)
0% Boy/Girl
0% Rope bunny
0% Ageplayer
Discretion.
Confidentiality.
Privacy.
What happens between us remains exclusively and alone under us. An extra password protects all of your personal data. Not even my innermost group of people will hear your name or get to know any other information about you.
Nothing of your personal data will be ever shared with any of third parties as far as they are not explicitly authorized by law or sovereignty due to their position to receive corresponding communications or information or in the case I have to share this information to protect my legitimate legal interests.
Privacy is the foundation of trust, which again forms the basis for a genuinely remarkable BDSM experience for both of us.
All confidential and order-related documents, in particular videos and pictures, will be secured against unauthorized access in compliance with minimum standards of data protection (gross negligence and intent) and neither documents, pictures, or videos, nor parts thereof (including fragments, excerpts or the like) will be removed from my office or from end devices personally used by me without prior written, video-recorded or from the telephone number given permission.
My obligation to maintain confidentiality extends indefinitely beyond the end of the contractual relationship and includes all information received from and about my clients prior to the signing of this obligation.
I will remove any information from all of my electronic data carriers, or information received in paper form will be destroyed, and other objects of the same informative character will be returned immediately after the termination of the contractual relationship unless there is expressly permission or request to retain the above-mentioned information for the purpose of a later purchase of my services or for other reasons.
Safety.
Security.
Health.
No musts I also mean that. The joy I derive comes from the mutual journey to create a new experience.Are you just starting with BDSM, I will escort you no less gladly than someone with extreme limits. At every session, safety and health are paramount.
In preparation for the session, I will work through any safety and health concerns you might have. Any equipment I use for the session is safe. If we use a playroom, I will check the equipment for suitability and safety before the session.
I may also use panic carabiners and latches where appropriate. At all times, I have appropriate equipment for rapid rescue of bonding gear in an emergency. In addition, I am trained and certified as a first-aider.
You can get a panic alarm bracelet or panic alarm button while bound, which you can press if necessary.
I prefer to work with the traffic light safe word system. With green you can give feedback on my request that you enjoy it. With yellow you draw my attention and I can adjust. The red means full stop and the end of the session.
I will ask you to provide you me with the information related to your health restrictions and limitations and will absolutely respect the particular needs related to that.
An active sex life is not entirely risk-free, and I do not make empty promises. I test myself regularly for STIs, i.e. at least once a quarter and always when my partners inform me about potential infections. I'm HIV negative and on PreP. I am happy to openly communicate this topic with you before your session so that you can assess your risk.
I will cancel and refund or - subject to your consent - reschedule a session as soon as I recognize symptomatically that I could infect you during the session. Likewise, I will cancel or refund a session during a treatment in which there could still be a risk of infection for you, or arrange an alternative appointment with you.
If I learn after the session with you of an infection risk that could also have affected you, I will immediately inform you about it (and about my test results) so that you can take precautionary measures. I expect the same from you.
Let's talk money.
The role of an escort created a new quality in sexual life and experience. It settles a clear framework for our roles and responsibilities in our relationship. It liberates us from any restrictions related to stereotypes, expectations or assumptions arising from our personal life experiences or societal or subcultural normatives.
We come together for a particular moment to experience and to enjoy with no past and no future. It's the source of true pleasure. It filters out you - the guy who knows that he wants me as his Dom or Master, who is ready to commit and to trust. It saves energy and time and allows focus on joy and pleasure.
Do you really expect a DOM to haggle over price? Would you trust a Dom who is uncertain about it? I would be the wrong choice if you wanted a discounted session with a Dom. I always know what I'm doing and the reason why I'm doing it. So I know precisely why I demand you the very tribute. Ask for it if interested, but don't ever argue or haggle. If you do so despite this warning, you will be allowed to approach me again only if you double the tribute. And we start from scratch then.
And yes, your tribute is subject to taxes. The final amount always includes the German VAT of 19% and is additionally subject to German individual income tax and the Berlin business activity tax.
Your monetary tribute is a sign of your commitment and trust. How will you entrust me with your fantasies and desires if you are not ready to trust me, even the booking confirmation fee? You need to trust me with the total contribution for the DRB Experience Session five days before it takes place to be ready to entrust me with your soul and body at that session.
Your monetary appreciation is also my kink. It's part of the power exchange experience. You made a wrong choice if you approached me expecting to leash, bound, or play with me over money.
I had enough offers in my career and life that could have made me much wealthier than I am now. But money also has its price. I always decided not to pay that price. I chose to do, to live, to be what I wanted, not what I would have been told to do or to be for the money I got offered.
The same applies to my role as an escort. For me, there is no more proof than my official registration certificate as a prostitute in Berlin that no one will be born anymore who can tell me what my price tag is. So, you don't pay for having sex with me. Your contribution compensates my time effort to create a unique scene that is as kinky as safe, as unlimited in living the fantasy as framed ahead.
Let's live your fantasy
Take this as an invitation to make your desires and fantasies happen. Choose one of the doors for our joint journey.
Experience Session
Was is it a fantasy or was it for real? You will see and feel how fluid and relative such separation may be.
Your fantasy is our limit. Nor time limits. We will both know when it's over. It's exclusively about us.
Experience Session includes: elaboration of the scene by jointly working on your fantasy, assessment of your health, taboos and limits, answering your questions, me being there for your desires and fears in the preparation phase, aftercare.
Online Experience
This is your opens the opportunity to experience submission, devotion, and guidance despite the distance.
Your booking opens a time balance that can be used for
- real-time online sessions,
- text exchange e-mails,
- task assignments,
- video task assignments,
- video reviews and responses,
- and my response custom assessment videos.
You get charged only for the time used. You can use it all at once, or we can play several times.
Example: Starting balance: 22 mins. You send me your 2 min video. 22-2 = 20 mins left on your time balance. I respond with a 3 mins long video 20-3 = 17 mins time balance left.
Mentoring Sessions
My mentoring services delve into the intricate world of kinky gay sexuality, encompassing BDSM. So, my approach differs significantly from traditional psychology; it isn't about comfort or coddling but rather a reflective mirror that doesn't shy away from the inconvenient truths. This method seeks to awaken and drive personal growth.
I offer a space devoid of judgment where you can confront your desires, build trust, and unearth the confidence to confront your true self. This journey isn't just about exploring; it's about forging a path to unapologetic self-acceptance, driven by the incredible potential that resides within your unique desires.
Long before I even knew what BDSM was, I was living it. This raw authenticity led me to realize that my role goes beyond guiding and escorting; it entails pushing you to your limits and then some. My coaching sessions might get as painful as some practical sessions; they are not designed to be a comfortable stroll but rather an arduous climb. This echoes the ethos that permeates all my services: "Perfer et obdura! Dolor hic tibi proderit olim!" — "Endure and be patient! Someday this pain will be useful to you."
Imprisonment Cell
This immersive imprisonment cell BDSM experience is designed for those who seek the depths of individual isolation and the thrills of deprivation.
Your journey begins as you willingly surrender your freedom at 19:15 daily, with your release scheduled for 7 a.m. the following morning. It's an experience unlike any other, a transformative passage into a world where time, rules, and boundaries are meticulously defined by DOM Robert himself.
Should you choose to embark on a longer stay in Berlin, prisoner release can be negotiated at specific intervals, offering a tantalizing taste of freedom before returning to your cell. The experience is not limited to isolation alone; it extends to fulfilling penal and service tasks, adding an extra layer of complexity to your journey.
Slaves Entrance
Entrance fee for slave candidates covers assessment of an application, job on trial and my final decision.
FULL-TIME slave candidates are dealt with priority.
ONLINE slave candidates open time credit account based on the Online Experience 16+6 pricing rule.
CASH slave candidates apply here. Further instructions will follow.
SEX slave candidates for anal, sucking, nipple play, worshiping, massage, feet upon request, assistance in Experience Sessions.
SERVICE slaves for household duties apply here.
Collaborations
Are you passionate about public sex, a true aficionado of masochism, and intrigued by the exhilaration of far-reaching limits for corporal punishment? If you're ready to take your desires to the next level and are unapologetically open to being filmed, hit me up!
My porn stories are journaling my sex adventures. I'm always glad to meet new partners who share my passion for exploration and exhibitionism.
Masos/subs: If the idea of pushing your boundaries and surrendering to pleasure while filmed, preferably with face, even on live cam, or being exposed publicly excites you, welcome.
I love to play with couples, also bi-couples. The more, the merrier! Parties/orgies and filmed - I'm in. Also ready to get to know and cooperate with escorts.
DOM Robert Berlin Experience Session
You not just be yourself, I expect you to be yourself.
I do enjoy to see how you suffer from pain inflicted by me, how you just feel humiliated and as a miserable nothing, completely lost or also completely delivered to me only property without own personality and free will.
But this as pure facade is not enough for me. I only experience my pleasure when I feel a sensation or am convinced that this is exactly what you need as a human being in front of me at this moment.
Bringing you to where I see you...
...while you are not even aware of it yourself, is literally my pleasure.
That's why I'm here and doing it with you. And you can't fake that. We would both feel that right away.
And anticipatory obedience doesn't help much either. It is much more an interaction between us, from which you feel with all your senses what you are supposed to do for my pleasure.
Exclusive and unique bound of trust between us.
I want to put you in a state that makes you let go of your responsibility, hand over your power to me and let me guide you to my pleasure.
We want and should establish a strong trusting bond in the limited time and in a limited exchange.
This bond of trust that is created in a BDSM relationship is what makes BDSM so special to me. T
he concrete practices and techniques are - however hot they may be - only secondary and do not replace this trust experience.
Mutual trust is the only way.
Preparation is of equal importance. We call it sub's training in the BDSM scene.
You will receive from me a confidentiality statement that also retroactively refers to all information about your person that you have already shared with me in advance or will share with me in my questionnaire and later until the end of the Experience Session and beyond.
All data with which you could be identified will be deleted after our last after-care exchange after the Experience Session.
This is part of our foundation of trust that I provide so that you can feel safe, helping to ensure that we both get the most out of our interaction.
I will under no circumstances share any information about you with anyone, not even in my inner circle, because this is about us only.
Nor I will google you. It's about connection bypassing our social roles with their restrictions, functions and limitations.
My experience shows that it is very worthwhile to exchange as much as possible in advance, however small one or the other aspect may seem at first. An inconsiderate, seemingly small thing in the tension already before and much more then during the session can develop to a much too big disturbing factor, which can take the whole joy from both of us.
We can prevent this right away and probably save a lot of precious time, which we will definitely know how to use better. Or is a conversation about your ailments part of the kink for you? Then we'll be happy to postpone it to the session.
Otherwise - the more we will clarify here, the more focused we will be in the session on your actual cravings and just experience them as well as certainly a lot of joy in the process.
There can be no one right whipping, beating or bondage technique.
Nearly every sub is worried whether he's doing it right and satisfying his Master's/DOM's expectations. If so, I am constantly being asked about what I would like to experience as a master/DOM. About it you have deliberately heard little from me until now. It is because I do not want you to make yourself appear to be disguised in the short precious time that is available to us, in order to try to fulfill some imaginary expectations of mine. That would be fake and I would feel that.
Experience Session | Booking Process
Kind reminder: no hourly services offered. BDSM-Sessions only. The price is not negotiable. Preferably, you book a playroom, and let me in to prepare it and to proceed with security checks before the session begins.
1. Date
Use the booking link to check dates available for sessions. If your agenda is limited and my booking calendar doesn't show my availability on your prefered dates reach out on WhatsApp to me.
Bookings 7-10 days in advance as minimum please. Short-notice sessions are a saldom offer.
2. Questionnaire
You will be forwarded to my Experience Sessions questionnaire where I will ask you to describe your kinks and fantasies. This questionnaire will introduce you also to my understanding of the session.
3. Advance Payment
I will check your answers instantly and confirm your booking in 24 hours after you made the advance payment.
In the unlikely event that your kinks would not be compatible with my ideas, you will get the advance payment refunded immediately.
4. Elaboration of the scene
I will evaluate your input and draw up a scene that would combine both your and my fantasies. We then discuss my suggestion and adapt it if necessary. I will answer your questions here too.
5. Residual Payment
Residual payment is due 10 days before the session.
6. Session
I will arrange and carry the scene out at the agreed time and place.
7. Aftercare
After the session, I guide you through aftercare depending on how you feel and what you need (wound care, talk, joint drink).
Experience Session | Pricing
Every Experience Session booking gets full promo access to my JustForFans and OnlyFans profile content and receive Chaturbate Fan Club Member status.
Booking Confirmation Payment
Credited to the final price
Use this payment if you confirmed the Experience Session data and want to confirm your booking. After this payment you will receive the Confidentiality and Privacy Declaration and questionnaire for the preparation of the session. We will chat and exchange on the kinky details to experience the highest joy possible when we meet.
Consider the option to save 100€ if paying the the full amount now - the final price will be 999€ instead of 1098€.
Choose this payment option if you book the session 10 or more days ahead and want to save 100€.
Fully refundable if cancelled by DOM Robert.
Cancellation fees: less than 5 days: 100%, less than 10 days: 50% from full price.
Pay now and get 100€ OFF
Full Price Payment
Choose this payment option if you book the session 10 or less days before the session.
Fully refundable if cancelled by DOM Robert.
Cancellation fees: less than 5 days: 100%, less than 10 days: 50% from full price.
Residual Payment
The residual payment is due 10 days before the session. Consider the option to save 100€ if paying the the full amount now - the final price will be 999€ instead of 1098€.
Fully refundable if cancelled by DOM Robert.
Cancellation fees: less than 5 days: 100%, less than 10 days: 50% from full price.
I love the intensity, not the dating app style of sexting.
One of the reasons for taking up escorting was the experiences I had on endless chats on the relevant dating apps. In BDSM with most guys the head cinema goes light years further than their actual willingness to live their kinky fantasies. It's called approach-avoidance in BDSM, which means as much as the short-term jumping off in the face of the now very real fantasy shortly before the agreed session date.
From this experience I insist on a first deposit before we will go into deeper exchange about your kinks. After the date and the key data of a session are clarified, we go into depth. However, I secure my risk monetarily. and here I do not discuss any more. If it does not suit you, then it just so.
And you lose if you write me "hi", "hello" or "moin". Fire away right away with the date you want and the core of your imagination.
Some dos & donts how you can contribute to making it happen
Based on the experience I have gathered so far, I want have a few tips to share to prevent misunderstandings and bring us faster and more effectively together. In doing so, my German bluntness does not shame me, since frank, forthright and confiding communication is a must for a thoroughly pleasure-filled BDSM session. What follows is not arrogance on my part. It is a fact. I get several requests every day. The majority of these are disappointing or even shockingly boring and uniform. Please do better. Turn me on with your first approach by being special. Respect my time and the effort I put to inform you about everything to expect by creating this online presence.
Start our play with the first contact.
Apply the general protocol norms of a M/s and D/s dynamic to our communication from the very beginning. In formal terms, I expect you calling me "Sir" or "DOM Robert". I expect you using proper grammar, full sentences and being capable to focus on the exchange between us which includes not using just words but expressing some reasonable thoughts.
In terms of the meaning of the M/s and D/s protocol, I expect you to approach me with respect and appreciation of my time and effort. And I expect mutual gratitude for our exchange.
Despite everything I have explained and described if you still say you have "already sighted many escorts" and consider me the next in line, you would better think it over again. I will most likely disappoint you.
Stand out.
I live in Berlin,guys! There is nothing easier and cheaper to have in this city than a "cum hole" waiting for a load. I penetrated countless exceptional buttholes and brought to the gagging point so many throats. I do porn. Do I really still make an impression that a pic of a random butthole could get me excited? And I'm not into dicks at all. Out of the endless number I have seen, I remember maybe ten. I wouldn't care much if you don't possess a dick at all. And as much I love to film and to get filmed while fucking I don't consume porn.
I just live my fantasy. And I want to be part of your fantasy. Therefore, what I'm care for is your desires and phantasies, and how you see me becoming part of it. Your trust, you courage to share will turn me on much more. Tell what you want and what you desire at the first time you approach me.
Couldn't you find an answer before reaching out?
A core part of a M/s or D/s protocol is the respect for the Master or Dom, his effort and time as well devoted trust and desire to submit. This means that you should first consider whether the involvement of the Master in the matter is really necessary and maybe you are capable to express your wishes and desires in a way the Master/Dom will be tempted to exchange with you.
If you ask me a question, which is already explained and answered in detail in my Internet presences with high effort on my part, it's just turning me off. We hardly come together after it. I perceive it as a lack of commitment and seriousness, which, based on experience, makes me assume a negative prognosis regarding the joint session.
Reach out if you still have any questions.
Or better check the dates for options meeting in person. No costs involved yet.
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